Update 4, Gitxsan Grandmothers Struggle with #ChildWelfare #Poverty #Genocide

Letter from a Grandmother - April 20, 2016


I want to share an update on my journey to bring my grandson Angel home from Ministry custody. He is now 10 months old, and every day away from him feels like an eternity.

I’ve attached a letter I wrote to Westcoast Leaf, UBCIC, and Jody Raybould Wilson, hoping my experience can help other grandparents who find themselves in similar situations. Since reaching out to these community organizations, I’ve noticed some positive movement in my case. It’s a reminder that when we share our stories, we can spark change—not just for ourselves, but for others too.

Recently, my home study was approved, even though I didn't have all the baby items required beforehand. I was able to pick up a small first aid kit and two gates just a few days after receiving that approval. I’ve attached the email confirming the home study approval for your reference.

Today, I received a court application from VACFSS to have Angel placed in my custody under section 41(1)(b). Court is set for next Wednesday, April 27, 2016. This means I will finally be recognized as a party to these proceedings, even after enduring this assessment process since Angel was born. It feels like a small victory, but it is a step in the right direction.

I’ve also found another daycare that just opened downtown, close to where I work, and they will start taking children full-time on June 1st. Thankfully, the court date on April 27 will adjourn until June 1, so I won’t have to miss any work during this critical time.

Angel's first birthday is coming up on June 15th, and I want nothing more than to celebrate it with him at home, surrounded by family and love.

I hope my experiences and this update resonate with you. It’s essential for us to support one another and advocate for the rights of our families. Together, we can create a brighter future for our children and grandchildren. Thank you for listening, and for caring about our stories.

Gitxsan Grandmother

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