Canadian oblivion

I don't even understand how it can be that Canada continues to take so many of our children—so many of our Indigenous children—into foster care every single day. It baffles me that so many Canadian citizens remain silent while this happens.

Like anyone else, I enjoy a good movie; I love watching Netflix and going out to the theatre every so often. I relish getting popcorn and a nice cold Coca-Cola.

I adore traveling whenever I can, and I appreciate all the things that come with privilege—like makeup, dressing up, nice clothes, and good food.

Despite the stereotypes that exist about us as Indigenous people, the truth is that we share the same joys and experiences as everyone else. We love our children—our little Indigenous ones, who are being taken from us every day.

You might not realize it because of the stereotypes and racism, but we are loving parents. We have aunties, uncles, grandmothers, and grandfathers who care deeply for our kids. 

Yes, the legacy of Indian residential schools has impacted us over the years, but some of us are healing, and some of us are doing just fine. You might think we all need to heal from the pain of the past, but that's not the case. Many of us live fulfilling lives, just like many of you.

Some of us have faced our struggles and emerged strong. I know people who have persevered—successful doctors, lawyers, welders, and nurses in my community are thriving.

How is it that Canada can justify taking our Indigenous children? How is this accepted in society? How can you help us when you continue to believe the stereotypes and racist remarks that question our ability to care for our own?

It’s time to turn on the light and see the truth.

To the government: Racism against Indigenous peoples must stop now, and you must stop taking our children. 

Um'aya.


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