The shaming feast

In our Gitxsan culture, we understand the concept of shaming, and we hold a shame feast, or potlatch, when a member of our house "soils their blanket" by committing a serious crime against someone from another Native Nation or tribe. It is a significant event because only Chiefs use blankets, and wearing one is a great honor. The entire house works together to support their Chief and keep the strength of the house and tribe intact. Everyone belonging to the house is held 100% accountable, and we are seen as one united family.

In cases of unforgivable crimes, such as child rape or murder, the house may allow the offender to be taken "hunting," which signifies a death sentence. The death of that house member is mourned deeply, just like any other loss. A feast or potlatch would follow, which would include payments to the victim, the house chief, and the members of the community. While this practice isn't followed in Canada today, we recognize that Gladue Rights can sometimes include the community in the healing process. Unfortunately, offenders are not always held accountable or shamed in the way that our tradition dictates. Gladue Rights focus more on healing and reconciliation, which is essential in addressing the impacts of Canadian genocide practices on our peoples.

A shame feast can be small, involving only the Chiefs, family, and the offender for lesser crimes. 

The agenda for such a feast is clear:
1. The offender's house is responsible for the payments.
2. We hold a smoke feast with the house chiefs, where we discuss reconciliation and healing.
3. At the feast, the offender must announce to everyone what they have done and how they intend to repay the community, as decided by the chiefs.

Once the offender has completed their shaming and fulfilled the conditions set before them, they will have "cleaned their blanket." A closing settlement feast can then be held to mark the end of the process.

Through this practice, we learn important lessons about accountability, community responsibility, and the significance of healing. We understand that actions have consequences, and it is our duty to uphold the values of respect and honor within our community. This process also teaches us that reconciliation is a vital part of our journey, as we continue to heal from the wounds of the past and work towards a stronger future together.

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