Surviving Intact

We Must Be Brave: A Gitxsan Grandmother’s Reflection We must be brave. We must hold our ground. The topic of “elder” came up tonight, and I was asked if I consider myself an elder. Honestly, I’ve never understood why labels are so important. I suspect it has a lot to do with funding and politics, and perhaps some religious beliefs tied to fire and lightning. There’s so much pressure on Aboriginal people to be inclusive. I often feel anxious about upsetting white people, and in trying to be inclusive, we sometimes unknowingly adopt white political beliefs, which leads organizations to exclude our own Aboriginal laws and traditions entirely. Over the last 20 years, I’ve noticed more and more labels—elder, matriarch, self-determination, traditional, healer, First Nations. I’ve made mistakes in the past by giving in to the pressures of others' fears, and that’s led to a betrayal of my own Gitxsan teachings and community members. It’s a lifetime regret I carry with me. Tonight, it w...